That’s a great point Kai. If someone told me something “in confidence” then I would likely not use their meaning in the CC. I would only share meaning I was willing to “own” or explain where the source came from. This can be an incredibly sticky situation and the more that I focus on what I really want the better I will be at sharing the right meaning. I think I would hold a different conversation with the team members who are gossiping about why they aren’t holding the CC THEY should be holding. I think that is a conversation we don’t have enough. We are happy to listen to people’s gripes as we try to be a good sounding board. But if we don’t encourage them to then master those stories and go hold the CC that is keeping them stuck, I think we are doing more harm then good when we listen to these gossip “drive bys.”