Comments on: The Perfect Inheritance https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-perfect-inheritance/ VitalSmarts is now Crucial Learning Sun, 09 Sep 2018 12:05:21 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: David Hernandez https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-perfect-inheritance/#comment-6610 Sun, 09 Sep 2018 12:05:21 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7470#comment-6610 The great gift you can give a child is their own self sufficiency.

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By: Grace Litak-Jaswinskinecessary https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-perfect-inheritance/#comment-6609 Wed, 05 Sep 2018 16:28:56 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7470#comment-6609 Spot on, Kerry!

I am of a firm belief that what defines a person is his or her ability to take on ANY job and get the dirt under their finger nails. Not only does it create character and respect for people who are not sitting in their cushy, air conditioned offices, but it gives them tools in life, ability to save on plumbers, contractors, cleaning staff, etc., as well as healthy hobbies (gardening anyone?).

I was born and raised on a farm, shoveled lots of smelly stuff, harvested everything that the Earth gave us, watched calves being born, milked cows (no, veggies, meat and milk do NOT come from supermarkets!). I love my time in Manhattan, Paris, London, and many other great cities as well….

Great piece!!!

Grace Litak-Jaswinski

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By: gary https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-perfect-inheritance/#comment-6608 Fri, 31 Aug 2018 18:27:25 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7470#comment-6608 In reply to Jenna.

Great Story Kerry!
Perhaps you should have been a writer…. of documentaries, not fiction! I got a lot of practice cleaning kennels for a local veterinarian, and your story brought back memories..
Gary

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By: bean https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-perfect-inheritance/#comment-6607 Thu, 30 Aug 2018 22:37:57 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7470#comment-6607 In reply to Kerry Patterson.

haHA!
that reminds me of my chinese buddy’s rationale (a second son who got less than the first, and whom i met in a research lab): “dyood! in china, you farm or you go to school; i didn’t want to be a farmer the rest of my life!”

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By: Brian Taylor https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-perfect-inheritance/#comment-6606 Thu, 30 Aug 2018 01:34:08 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7470#comment-6606 Very good, Kerry. A good lesson and cleverly written – an amusing pleasure to read. I agree with the principle, too, but I don’t see many similar examples with today’s younger generations. Unfortunate, I think, for them.

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By: Scott https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-perfect-inheritance/#comment-6605 Wed, 29 Aug 2018 22:15:25 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7470#comment-6605 Dear Mr. Patterson,

Your essay moved me. My father, a veterinarian, pressed me into service at his practice when I was 12. I was trained as a kennel attendant and general janitor during the great canine parvovirus epidemic of the early 1980s that wiped out 25% of the world’s dog population. You can imagine the germ theory in such a setting. Dad’s single cleaning edict was that his practice was not to smell foul to our clients at any time, never a crinkled nose. Since then I have stayed in the veterinary world of work, now in management. To this day, one of the greatest compliments I hear from clients who grace our doors with their beloved pets exclaim, “It doesn’t smell like a vet clinic here.” All of those kind of compliments go directly to the meticulous cleaning crew. I regularly reply, “It is HARD WORK to make this place NOT smell like a veterinary clinic.”

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By: Jeff Grigg https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-perfect-inheritance/#comment-6604 Wed, 29 Aug 2018 19:10:57 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7470#comment-6604 In reply to Nanci Burchell.

I’ve told my peers to respect the cleaning staff. Their job is (hard and) important.

“You try to run a productive project with no toilet paper in the bathroom.” is what I like to say.

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(And in my career, I can think of two projects where I brought toilet paper to work because the bathrooms tended to run out. It’s that important to me that my people have what they need to “get the job done.” And to get back to work after getting those other necessary “jobs” done. 😉 )

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By: Kerry Patterson https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-perfect-inheritance/#comment-6603 Wed, 29 Aug 2018 18:44:58 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7470#comment-6603 In reply to Carol Sorensen.

I too picked cucumbers as a kid (they were later transformed into pickles). You returned home at the end of the day with a thousand small cuts–and a real appreciation for (1) those who routinely do that work and (2) the importance of doing well in school.

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By: Kerry Patterson https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-perfect-inheritance/#comment-6602 Wed, 29 Aug 2018 18:40:35 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7470#comment-6602 In reply to Nanci Burchell.

Sometimes you can’t clean the bathroom due to social norms. As a Coast GuardOfficer I had a private bathroom, but the first time I went to clean it a Chief Petty Officer told me that it wasn’t proper for a person of my standing to clean his own privy. So, agreeing with your dad, I learned to clean when everyone had gone home at the end of the day.

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By: Dana Ellingen https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-perfect-inheritance/#comment-6601 Wed, 29 Aug 2018 18:20:09 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7470#comment-6601 Outstanding. And it produces a respect for ALL who work hard, regardless of whether it is in the board room or the bath room.

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