Comments on: Influencing Unprofessional Dress https://cruciallearning.com/blog/influencing-unprofessional-dress/ VitalSmarts is now Crucial Learning Thu, 09 Aug 2012 00:00:14 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: Janice Johnson https://cruciallearning.com/blog/influencing-unprofessional-dress/#comment-2162 Thu, 09 Aug 2012 00:00:14 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=2682#comment-2162 As an image consultant (and ex IBM employee where navy blue suits ruled, I have to agree with Mark’s comment; the higher you set the dress code standard, the better the performance.

Just don’t take my word for it, it’s been been proven as I wrote in my blog this past March. http://www.jjimageconsulting.com/dress-up-rev-up-your-profits/

“According to a new study from Kellogg School of Management University, IL, USA, there is evidence to support the relationship between clothes and behaviour. The report concluded that when people dress up for a role, they actually become better at it.”

Oh, and by the way, it doesn’t cost any more to dress professionally than it does to dress casually; in fact, it can cost less if you factor in the wear you will get from good quality clothes. And bargain shopping doesn’t hurt, either. Good for you, Missy!

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By: Joseph Grenny https://cruciallearning.com/blog/influencing-unprofessional-dress/#comment-2161 Wed, 29 Feb 2012 21:51:18 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=2682#comment-2161 I like Mark W.’s point as well as that of others above. I agree that the way you dress affects not only others’ perception but can influence your own behavior as well. I am in a suit as I write this because I had a meeting with a dignitary earlier. I carry myself differently in the suit than in my sweats.

But I still like my sweats better and blog just fine in them! (smile)

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By: Julinda https://cruciallearning.com/blog/influencing-unprofessional-dress/#comment-2160 Wed, 29 Feb 2012 20:34:23 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=2682#comment-2160 Like the article and agree with it!

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By: Mark Waltensperger https://cruciallearning.com/blog/influencing-unprofessional-dress/#comment-2159 Wed, 29 Feb 2012 19:13:50 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=2682#comment-2159 Even though your advice on how to have a crucial conversation had merit, there was an unmistakable tone in your response that the questioner was out of touch for wanting a high standard for professional dress and was unreasonably expecting too much. What mattered most was what the customer thought, e.g., was the employee’s performance better in a tie or a polo shirt? Sure, satisfying the customer is very important, but they shouldn’t set our standards. The industry sets the standards. If standards are high (including dress), success usually follows. If they’re low, or undefined, then it shows and it won’t take the market long to figure it out and ask what else is being given a pass at that company. If we, as a society, keep going down the path of continously lowering the bar and finding the lowest expectations acceptable, we’re in for a lot of disappointment.

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By: George Bond https://cruciallearning.com/blog/influencing-unprofessional-dress/#comment-2158 Wed, 29 Feb 2012 19:07:22 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=2682#comment-2158 After retiring from the Coast Guard I went into teaching high school. I always wore a tie and I felt I not only needed to dress better than the kids but I needed to set an example. I noticed more men wearing a tie more often as I wore mine. My last year we went to Bow-Tie Wednesday to counter the jeans some wore that day. I think the kids noticed our ties more than what the other wore as jeans were the standard dress for the students. I also complemented both male and female when they dressed nicely. Sitting at home now on the computer doing Coast Guard Auxiliary work and I am wearing – jeans. Dress for the occasion but remember you may be an example to others.

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By: Paige https://cruciallearning.com/blog/influencing-unprofessional-dress/#comment-2157 Wed, 29 Feb 2012 17:49:57 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=2682#comment-2157 My workplace recently instituted once-a-month jeans-wearing days. We are still required to wear logo-d shirts, and no sports shoes are allowed.
Seeing everyone dressed more casually (and wearing jeans myself) makes me feel like we all were asked to work on a Saturday. It makes me feel less professional and makes me view others as less professional. Even so, it is a no-cost reward for employees who like to wear jeans in an economy that stifles pay raises and other financial bonuses. Maybe as I get used to it, my negative feelings will fade.

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By: Ray Ellison https://cruciallearning.com/blog/influencing-unprofessional-dress/#comment-2156 Wed, 29 Feb 2012 16:53:33 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=2682#comment-2156 I’m an old school guy that actually preferred the days of suits and ties. That said I’m a big believer that the key to success with dress is to think of it as “packaging”. It’s the package you are put in, that helps make a positive first impression. If your job is one where that is important then you better pay attention to it and in today’s world formal doesn’t always work. I have some wonderful “stories” I could share to give someone a vicarious experience about this if needed.

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By: Missy https://cruciallearning.com/blog/influencing-unprofessional-dress/#comment-2155 Wed, 29 Feb 2012 15:47:56 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=2682#comment-2155 I work for a state agency which is also union. Many of my professional colleagues will dress appropriately if they are interfacing with the public. My personal preference is to dress for success each day. It makes me feel the boundary between work and play/my other life. I do dress jeans on casual Fridays unless I have an appointment.
My personal observations, as a customer, is often I have a hard time figuring out who is an employee vs. customer in the outside world. When I am looking for help in a store, I often have to look for a lanyard or name tag. This is time-consuming, as you always don’t get to see the front of an individual unless they are behind a counter.
On the flip side, let me talk about uniforms in my career of nursing. I hear it expressed by friends and family you cannot tell who the nurse is anymore no matter what the situation. Everyone gets to wear scrubs. I love scrubs, too but share their frustration when I have tried to find the appropriate help for others while visiting hospitals and extended-care facilities. I hate the notion of looking at someone’s chest to try and see a name tag. I know I would not appreciate that.
I liked that you brought up the cost. Actually, I have found great buys at seasonal times and at various on-line and yes, gently used! No one knows except me.

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By: Keely https://cruciallearning.com/blog/influencing-unprofessional-dress/#comment-2154 Wed, 29 Feb 2012 14:19:05 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=2682#comment-2154 At some point in high school, I was told (I don’t remember by whom) that it was important to “dress for the job you want, not the job you have”. I’ve tried to model that over the years and in my most recent company have gone from an entry-level position to a manager in 7 years (3 promotions). While I admit, I also have the skills for this position and have used crucial conversations to let my superiors know that I was interested in advancement, my (previous) peers have been “held back”. I admit I could be wrong, but I believe part of it has to do with a lack of professional dress, which is perceived by the “powers that be” to be a lack of professionalism, talent and commitment. I have even overheard comments like, “She would make a good x because she has the right appearance” (in that she would present herself well to outside clients because she dresses professionally). It may not be important in all areas, but it is definitely more important in some fields than others.

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