Comments on: What to Do When Someone Undermines Your Role https://cruciallearning.com/blog/what-to-do-when-someone-undermines-your-role/ VitalSmarts is now Crucial Learning Tue, 12 Apr 2022 09:13:13 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: Truthy https://cruciallearning.com/blog/what-to-do-when-someone-undermines-your-role/#comment-9511 Tue, 12 Apr 2022 09:13:13 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7613#comment-9511 In reply to Me.

Yes. Indeed. There should be clear guidelines and discussions as to roles. Possible consequences for meddling among roles( never seen or know of reprimands hardly ever). But it doesn’t feel good to be usurped of your role.

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By: Truthy https://cruciallearning.com/blog/what-to-do-when-someone-undermines-your-role/#comment-9510 Tue, 12 Apr 2022 09:02:20 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7613#comment-9510 In reply to Allison G.

David you brought out some very clear behaviors and attitudes that are displayed by these ‘takeover’ individuals. They are very superficial, high energized and many lacking indepth knowledge about existing work place culture , wanting to use your experience and knowledge while pretending that they know it all. Many are not very smart but try to ‘look the position.’

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By: Me https://cruciallearning.com/blog/what-to-do-when-someone-undermines-your-role/#comment-6773 Mon, 22 Apr 2019 14:18:48 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7613#comment-6773 Shouldn’t the ED be focused on their own role, not undermining someone else’s?

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By: davidmaxfield https://cruciallearning.com/blog/what-to-do-when-someone-undermines-your-role/#comment-6772 Thu, 24 Jan 2019 15:35:38 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7613#comment-6772 Thanks for your ideas and examples. I agree that role conflicts are fundamental to this problem. The questioner may want to approach the role discussion directly by setting up a discussion to discuss what her role has been in the past, and how her role (or the ED’s) might change going forward. The key will be to create safety and to be open to change, because it does sound as if the ED intends to take over a lot of her past role.

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By: Allison G https://cruciallearning.com/blog/what-to-do-when-someone-undermines-your-role/#comment-6771 Wed, 23 Jan 2019 16:50:07 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7613#comment-6771 David,

Yes, I have been on both sides of that equation. I was hired to “fix the staff” and told who my staff were. They were not who I was told and it took me about 2 1/2 weeks to figure that out, but I had offended and isolated some of the staff by that time and it took months to fix.

On the other hand, I had a coworker who was brought in from the outside and felt he had more to teach us than learn from us. He then got promoted to be my supervisor, and subsequently my manager. He had never taken time to learn how we did business in a holistic way. I had worked through the ranks and had achieved my position by learning how the company did business. I was pegged as the go-to person until he became my manager and insisted I get all my information from him rather than the customers and those who were in operations. He made it his mission to “fix” me in a very harsh and unproductive way. I failed on many projects because of lack of information that he felt I didn’t need to know. Then I got my first negative review ever in my over 50 life.

So, as I said, I’ve seen both sides.

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By: Sharon Campbell https://cruciallearning.com/blog/what-to-do-when-someone-undermines-your-role/#comment-6770 Wed, 23 Jan 2019 16:48:17 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7613#comment-6770 I would suggest that she get a glowing recommendation from the previous ED.

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By: PJ https://cruciallearning.com/blog/what-to-do-when-someone-undermines-your-role/#comment-6769 Wed, 23 Jan 2019 15:46:41 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7613#comment-6769 I have been in this situation. It happens. I was very clearly part of the old guard, and seen as standing in the way of their priorities. I also wasn’t helping my situation be digging in my heals around how I wanted to do things (which is easier to see after you’re out of the drama). So…I left. I moved into a related role, in a separate organization. Win for everyone.

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By: Chason https://cruciallearning.com/blog/what-to-do-when-someone-undermines-your-role/#comment-6768 Wed, 23 Jan 2019 15:36:41 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7613#comment-6768 Sounds to me that the ED wants her to quit for whatever reason.

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By: Cynthia Hawkins https://cruciallearning.com/blog/what-to-do-when-someone-undermines-your-role/#comment-6767 Wed, 23 Jan 2019 15:36:21 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7613#comment-6767 Agree with the previous comments – discussion about the roles. But, quite frankly, I think you better start looking for other employment. Not being included in any sort of “visionary”, “planning” or “getting acquainted” activities is a clear sign that you are either going to be demoted or out the door.

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By: Julinda https://cruciallearning.com/blog/what-to-do-when-someone-undermines-your-role/#comment-6766 Wed, 23 Jan 2019 14:39:19 +0000 http://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=7613#comment-6766 In reply to Julinda.

Sorry, didn’t finish my comment! Discussion about the roles would be a good starting point so the volunteer and the ED can understand each other better!

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