Comments on: The Roi-Tan Cemetery https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-roi-tan-cemetery/ VitalSmarts is now Crucial Learning Thu, 17 Mar 2022 19:15:22 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: robin https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-roi-tan-cemetery/#comment-4947 Fri, 26 May 2017 17:15:59 +0000 https://www.crucialskills.com/?p=6402#comment-4947 All I can say is “WOW!” Words to live by and cling to. Thank you.

]]> By: Lil https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-roi-tan-cemetery/#comment-4946 Sat, 15 Oct 2016 20:47:33 +0000 https://www.crucialskills.com/?p=6402#comment-4946 Well done!! And the reason I have been an advocate for your books and approaches for many years now 😉 Thanks for fighting the good fight and helping folks understand anything can be used as a weapon or a tool..held with the hands or the heart makes a big difference in outcome and determines it’s use 😉 and I am glad to say your organization has done a great deal to help, not hurt or hinder…blessings, lil

]]> By: Lori Lynn https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-roi-tan-cemetery/#comment-4945 Thu, 29 Sep 2016 14:13:25 +0000 https://www.crucialskills.com/?p=6402#comment-4945 What a wonderful article!

]]> By: Lynn Stephen https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-roi-tan-cemetery/#comment-4944 Thu, 29 Sep 2016 03:45:40 +0000 https://www.crucialskills.com/?p=6402#comment-4944 Kerry – just want you to know that even if I’m extremely busy and can’t get to every email, I read your articles. Your wit, your stories, your experience, so echo my own, that I relate in some way with all the things you write. Thank you for sharing your life and insights with us. I’m a better person because of what you write. Keep up the good work!

]]> By: Kerry Patterson https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-roi-tan-cemetery/#comment-4943 Wed, 28 Sep 2016 23:09:01 +0000 https://www.crucialskills.com/?p=6402#comment-4943 In reply to Wyell Grunwald.

Thanks.

]]> By: Kerry Patterson https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-roi-tan-cemetery/#comment-4942 Wed, 28 Sep 2016 23:08:06 +0000 https://www.crucialskills.com/?p=6402#comment-4942 In reply to Sandra Shill.

I sat down with him and we discussed the ethics of what he had done. He didn’t appear to care, but I did warn him of the dangers he faced.

]]> By: Torri Sanders https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-roi-tan-cemetery/#comment-4941 Wed, 28 Sep 2016 23:07:54 +0000 https://www.crucialskills.com/?p=6402#comment-4941 You are the best!

]]> By: Kerry Patterson https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-roi-tan-cemetery/#comment-4940 Wed, 28 Sep 2016 23:05:16 +0000 https://www.crucialskills.com/?p=6402#comment-4940 In reply to Elaine Murphy.

We try to stay out of politics in this column for reasons I’m sure you can appreciate.

]]> By: Kerry Patterson https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-roi-tan-cemetery/#comment-4939 Wed, 28 Sep 2016 23:03:29 +0000 https://www.crucialskills.com/?p=6402#comment-4939 In reply to Kimberly Lacey.

Such kind remarks. You’ve made my day. Thank you, and I’m glad we’ve been of some assistance.

]]> By: Kimberly Lacey https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-roi-tan-cemetery/#comment-4938 Wed, 28 Sep 2016 21:11:05 +0000 https://www.crucialskills.com/?p=6402#comment-4938 As always, great article. And I am encouraged that you have not become discouraged by people who misuse the skills, because they never truly acquired them to begin with. They only pretended. While pretending might get you a temporary something you think you desire, it will not get you what you truly desire, which is what we all desire. Peace. Acceptance. Respect. The skills you teach have enriched my life in the most meaningful ways. I was able to repair a long damaged relationship with my mother. I have been able to have difficult conversations with people who report to me, people to whom I report, and colleagues. I have learned to differentiate between “me problems” and “them problems” and to forgive myself for the me problems and forgive them for the them problems, and recognize my role and decisions in each. My life is better as a result. Thank you.

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