Comments on: Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking https://cruciallearning.com/blog/overcoming-the-fear-of-public-speaking/ VitalSmarts is now Crucial Learning Mon, 02 Nov 2015 11:31:09 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: yusuf sanda https://cruciallearning.com/blog/overcoming-the-fear-of-public-speaking/#comment-2878 Mon, 02 Nov 2015 11:31:09 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=3827#comment-2878 how can I overcome shyness or fear when speaking in the pub.

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By: Vernel https://cruciallearning.com/blog/overcoming-the-fear-of-public-speaking/#comment-2877 Fri, 01 Mar 2013 21:52:24 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=3827#comment-2877 The Dale Carnegie training addresses both of these issues. Students learn to speak out and to reach out. Reading his books is helpful, but does not have the impact of the course. It changed my life for sure.

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By: Dorothy McKinney https://cruciallearning.com/blog/overcoming-the-fear-of-public-speaking/#comment-2876 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 19:42:01 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=3827#comment-2876 I completely agree that deliberate practice is the best way to overcome the fear of public speaking. In addition, I have found a few perspectives/techniques can make it a little easier (especially for people whose opportunities for practice may not be as supportive as a Toastmaster’s meeting).

I discovered these techniques by reading (although I don’t have the citations handy), used them myself and now recommended them to others. They include:
— Make your audience less intimidating in your own mind (one approach to doing this is to imagine the audience members to all be in their underwear — or naked, whichever makes them feel less intimidating to you)
— Stop concentrating on yourself (which fosters performance anxiety). Instead focus on your audience, and think about why THEY want the information that you have to share. If you focus on thinking of them, and how you can help them, instead of focusing on whether you can be a good speaker, it is more likely your message will come across well to them.
— If you find the size of your audience upsetting, focus only on a few people in the audience, and speak directly to them. If you have a whole auditorium full of people in front of you, choose one person (preferably with a sympathetic and interested look) in the front row, and one on each side of the room. If you alternate talking to these individuals, you will come across as speaking more personally to the entire audience.

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By: greg https://cruciallearning.com/blog/overcoming-the-fear-of-public-speaking/#comment-2875 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 16:04:50 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=3827#comment-2875 Good article.

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By: Lori https://cruciallearning.com/blog/overcoming-the-fear-of-public-speaking/#comment-2874 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 15:46:33 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=3827#comment-2874 I would suggest caution in using the words “shyness” and “introversion” in the same context. Shyness is a fear whereas introversion is a preference. People can be one and not the other. There are shy extraverts and there are introverts who are comfortable with interaction and public speaking (just worn out as a result).

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