Comments on: How to Develop Leadership Skills https://cruciallearning.com/blog/how-to-develop-leadership-skills/ VitalSmarts is now Crucial Learning Thu, 07 Jun 2012 18:51:25 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: Chad Andrews https://cruciallearning.com/blog/how-to-develop-leadership-skills/#comment-1347 Thu, 07 Jun 2012 18:51:25 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=919#comment-1347 Dear Dave, I believe that leadership is clearly a learable skill. The first question is : do you have the passion for it? In my limited study of the topic it’s hard to define what gives a person this passion. Perhaps it’s like anything, you just discover that you like it. If you are put in a leadership position, you can ask “your followers” for feedback. How am I doing? Please give me feedback on how I can better help you do your job, lead you etc. I saw a good article on line about leadership styles: authoritarian- high orietation to task, low on relation ship “do what I tell you” Next is collaborative: high on task accomplishment/ and high on relationship. This seems optimal. Next is “country club” high on relationship but low on task accomplishment. The leader is too concerned about relationships to really lead. And finally low task/ low relationship.(not sure what to call it.) Anyway, good luck. I agree with the comment that you need a clear definition of what chaotic means. Perhaps for example you need to sharpen your meeting leading skills or focus on some other specific improvable behavior. To summarize, if you have the passion and can make it through the inevitable emotional set backs involved with leading: you can do it!

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By: Rob https://cruciallearning.com/blog/how-to-develop-leadership-skills/#comment-1346 Mon, 08 Nov 2010 13:03:23 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=919#comment-1346 Dave, you say that, “The path to the position is far less important than what you do with it once you get there.”

Let’s say a “suitable” committee, the composition of which you have no say in, simply appoints the President of the United States, without due electoral process (of course, you also lose your right to vote forever). Would that be ok?

In any case, the point the book makes is that when people have the right to vote, freedom results. When people do not have voting rights, dictatorships result, along with fear. Freedom is more important than the individual leaders, who come and go by virtue of being voted in or out.

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By: Amanda https://cruciallearning.com/blog/how-to-develop-leadership-skills/#comment-1345 Thu, 04 Nov 2010 03:08:34 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=919#comment-1345 The difference between a boss (the committee) and an elected leader: In a free system, citizens can impeach or vote out the elected leader without fear. The fate of the leader is in the citizens’ hands. In most workplaces today, the typical system grants bosses absolute power: We cannot vote out or impeach our boss (leader), and fate of the boss is not in the hands of the employees (followers). Dissent is not well tolerated, and fear is a prevalent emotion with a culture of secrecy. That is why the term “chaotic” is confusing: You aren’t being told what is really going on. It is correct that management will not appreciate questioning because fear is a prevalent emotion, and dissent is not tolerated. A good question would be, “Why do they behave the way they do?” This question will not necessarily lead to a conclusion that the committee or any one person is to blame, either.
Attempting to completely, deeply understand “chaotic” or dynamics of it or any other label given to you by your boss/committee, in this case, is futile. It does not contribute to your leadership development or self growth, and will probably have little influence on their opinions or the situation -simply because of the context and system that is in place.
I differ that my first comment is incorrect. A leader is a person who is elected by the people s/he is leading. Being elected is a form of acceptance and the two are not mutually exclusive in a free system.

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By: Rob https://cruciallearning.com/blog/how-to-develop-leadership-skills/#comment-1344 Sun, 31 Oct 2010 11:57:39 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=919#comment-1344 It should really not be up to the committee to decide on whether you make a good leader. It should be up to your followers to decide. You could try polling your ‘followers’ and see what they say – if you have strong support, you can always try putting this information in front of the committee.

I’ve read the book that Amanda references, and absolutely agree with the book’s fundamental premise: that context is an overwhelmingly crucial factor in human behavior. Context determines the nature of conversations. If you’re elected, you’re going to have one type of conversation with your ‘followers’. If you’re not elected but have power over somebody, you’re going to have another type of conversation.

It’s a systemic issue, rather than one of individuals. I highly recommend the book as it uses Systems Thinking to get to the core causes workplace behaviors. A truly enlightening read.

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By: Dave https://cruciallearning.com/blog/how-to-develop-leadership-skills/#comment-1343 Sat, 30 Oct 2010 00:48:41 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=919#comment-1343 Dear LLS,

You raise a good question, and the answer was right on. However, it missed what may be the most crucial point: a clear and complete understanding of what was meant by “chaotic.” You can study leadership and build skills, but unless you know specifically the results that are hurting you – and what other factors contribute to those results – you’re likely to get the same results over and over again. It’s quite possible – I would say likely – that other factors contribute to your leadership problems. Look closely at the dynamics behind what “chaotic” means (if you’re ever able to get deeper into it) and you may find many things outside your control. The question then becomes how to work with those issues, and that could be a good question for middle and upper management – and a test of their own leadership, which they might not appreciate.

Also, it seems to me Amanda’s first comment is incorrect. To be a leader, one must be accepted, not elected. The path to the position is far less important than what you do with it once you get there. I note that some elected “leaders” do not lead, and some appointed “leaders” are excellent (and of course vice versa). Her last point, though, is excellent – to evaluate your skills in the context of your organization’s culture. It could be that there’s nothing wrong with your skills; you might just be in the wrong place.

Best of luck,
Dave (former public sector organizational consultant)

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By: Amanda https://cruciallearning.com/blog/how-to-develop-leadership-skills/#comment-1342 Fri, 29 Oct 2010 20:48:46 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=919#comment-1342 Jennifer, that is a great question… That is just what the book I mention above addresses: The organization, and the system in which it operates. Take a look at the book, and I think you’ll find the answer

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By: Jennifer https://cruciallearning.com/blog/how-to-develop-leadership-skills/#comment-1341 Thu, 28 Oct 2010 11:22:58 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=919#comment-1341 This is a very helpful article but it leaves one question, when would lacking leadership skills know when his/her organization was ready?

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By: Amanda https://cruciallearning.com/blog/how-to-develop-leadership-skills/#comment-1340 Wed, 27 Oct 2010 15:21:52 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=919#comment-1340 As for leadership, take this into consideration before being too hard on yourself or spending too much time searching for what you are doing “wrong”. In order to be a leader, you must be elected. Anything otherwise represents a dictatorship, and those following you, your “subjects”. I suggest you read the book: Why Your Boss Is Programmed To Be A Dictator by Chetan Dhruve. You will find it is not just lack of skills, but the engrained environment or system itself that sets you up to fail at leadership. You will be a great leader, if only because you are asking questions about leadership. In the mean time, be gentle and patient with yourself and consider your traits along with the context of your environment’s structure.
-Amanda

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By: Julie https://cruciallearning.com/blog/how-to-develop-leadership-skills/#comment-1339 Wed, 27 Oct 2010 14:52:55 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=919#comment-1339 Dear Lacking, I think you already possess a great leadership skill. You care. The ability to step up and ask for help with this shows that you are willing to make change which is another leadership must have. Kudos to you and best wishes! This is one of favorite Crucial Skills articles to date. Thank you for putting yourself out there!

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