Comments on: Kerrying On: Hidden Dangers

By: Kent Gale

Kent Gale — Wed, 01 Nov 2023 22:10:18 +0000

The overarching simplicity ties to one of Covey’s great comments….seek first to understand and then seek to be understood. Yes, labelling others and name calling is counter productive and totally wrong. I am applying your solution. I will let those who are sharing their thoughts and damaging the effort by name calling, know how it is impacting me.

By: Geoffrey R Holt

Geoffrey R Holt — Thu, 26 Oct 2023 14:58:05 +0000

Thank you Kerry for sharing these amazing insights and for your what I call prophetic call to avoiding the horrible social discourse that is happening 14 years later. Sadly, like the prophets of Israel experienced, it is sad that so many North Americans have not heeded your warnings and sage advice, and have gone in the complete other direction. Thank you for speaking the truth as to what genuine democratic discourse is all about.

By: Laura

Laura — Thu, 19 Oct 2023 20:15:20 +0000

Excellent and much needed action!!

By: Robin Konop

Robin Konop — Thu, 19 Oct 2023 13:20:53 +0000

In reply to Bret. I agree. A wonderful person and truly missed.

By: Jacqueline

Jacqueline — Wed, 18 Oct 2023 21:54:03 +0000

I love the backstory here about growing up in the 50’s. Seems like a dangerous time. I thought growing up in the 70s was bad. I absolutely agree with you on the omniscience feeling. Recently in Australia, we had a referendum which was divisive and painful for the people it affected. Every time Australia wants to enable a disadvantaged group in it’s constitution, it asks the people. The whole process is awful and painful. And when the country says ‘no’ to whatever group is asking for a particular right, there’s a lot of heartbreak for those affected, and for those who wanted to do the ‘right’ thing. The idea of omniscience is definitely part of the discourse with everyone wanting to be right. Everyone seeing the other side as completely stupid and wrong.
Ultimately, the whole process creates division instead of conversation. The topic becomes heated and emotional. Some people walk away and do a donkey vote to express their dissatisfaction at the whole process.
I’ve always tried to have friends who don’t always reflect my point of view. It was really hard to listen to people on this last one. I wish I’d seen this article earlier but these gifts from the universe come when you’re ready to receive it.
Thank you for such a warm and engaging article. I really enjoyed it and walked away with greater insights about myself.

By: Renee

Renee — Wed, 18 Oct 2023 20:28:08 +0000

In reply to Phil Kac. In another era, the "cancel culture" was called boycotting. In Mr. Kerry's case, he made the decision for himself, as we all should, not to patronize the program. I don't believe he said he advocated that others should boycott the program.

By: Hedy B-W

Hedy B-W — Wed, 18 Oct 2023 19:06:22 +0000

In reply to Phil Kac. I appreciate this observation! I generally don't watch even those I have agreed with policy-wise when they do so with disrespect, sneering, anger and hate, but never thought to contact them. This has certainly reduced my media options! I agree that cancelling is just another version of what disturbed me, but will consider responding to programs with appreciation of the positive and requests for a more respectful discussion of opposing viewpoints.

By: Gary Kotler

Gary Kotler — Wed, 18 Oct 2023 17:50:14 +0000

Love your Point.
I ask “Would I say it in front of them”

By: Lou Anne Mills

Lou Anne Mills — Wed, 18 Oct 2023 17:21:46 +0000

Refreshing! I get very tired of the negative atmosphere.

By: Bret

Bret — Wed, 18 Oct 2023 17:08:12 +0000

R.I.P. Kerry! I love all your stories and shared wisdom. You are dearly missed.