Comments on: Kerrying On: Six Dollars an Hour https://cruciallearning.com/blog/kerrying-on-six-dollars-an-hour/ VitalSmarts is now Crucial Learning Mon, 07 Mar 2022 23:19:22 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: Carol Davison https://cruciallearning.com/blog/kerrying-on-six-dollars-an-hour/#comment-3386 Thu, 15 May 2014 21:06:22 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=5193#comment-3386 Yes, Sally Washburn, you may have walked uphill to school 2 miles, both ways, but did you have shoes?

A lovely, moving story as always Kerry!

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By: Jean Hughes https://cruciallearning.com/blog/kerrying-on-six-dollars-an-hour/#comment-3385 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 21:22:37 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=5193#comment-3385 OMG! I thought I was the only one that had to endure those horrid tongue sandwiches that my mom tried to disguise as “roast beef!” There were mealy cull apples for snacks, milk mixed half and half with powdered milk and always a pile of wheat germ on top of my dry cereal! And woe unto you if you ever made a sandwich with TWO slices of bologna! If I missed the bus and had to walk home from school it was 3 miles. I babysat 3-4 times a week for 4 children plus cleaning house and cooking for $ .35 an hour. That paid for my clothes, movies, football games, dances and my prom dress. However, I never thought of us as poor – we bought a 1957 Chevy and got a new furnace in the same year!

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By: Robert Ludwig https://cruciallearning.com/blog/kerrying-on-six-dollars-an-hour/#comment-3384 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 20:34:47 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=5193#comment-3384 Thanks for the walk down memory lane. My family may have been a bit more affluent as we had one more choice in the refrigerator to choose from, sometimes there was headcheese available along with tongue. Thanks for sharing. I always look forward to your column.

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By: Victoria https://cruciallearning.com/blog/kerrying-on-six-dollars-an-hour/#comment-3383 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 20:28:06 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=5193#comment-3383 You can call it cheap. I say that our baby boomer generation deserves the Excellence Award in Sustanability!!

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By: Kerry Patterson https://cruciallearning.com/blog/kerrying-on-six-dollars-an-hour/#comment-3382 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 19:40:18 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=5193#comment-3382 In reply to Peter Martin.

I got the same power company line from my dad. If you really wanted to see him flip, all you had to do was make a long-distance phone call.

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By: Kerry Patterson https://cruciallearning.com/blog/kerrying-on-six-dollars-an-hour/#comment-3381 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 19:36:46 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=5193#comment-3381 In reply to Megan.

My intention was to describe the circumstances and, in some cases, long-term effects of children brought up by parents who survived the Great Depression. I write about my generation by characterizing my self in the harshest way. I have indeed learned to be generous and take great pleasure in helping others. But that wasn’t the part of the story I was telling.

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By: Kerry Patterson https://cruciallearning.com/blog/kerrying-on-six-dollars-an-hour/#comment-3380 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 19:32:25 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=5193#comment-3380 In reply to Janet Ross.

Good point. That certainly wasn’t my intention. My own children are very careful with their resources as are lots of people. And for lots of people coming out of tough circumstances, many become awfully loose with their money. My goal was to simply show how some of us were raised as a way of explaining some of our proclivities.

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By: Sally Washburn https://cruciallearning.com/blog/kerrying-on-six-dollars-an-hour/#comment-3379 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 19:14:39 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=5193#comment-3379 I am also of Kerry’s generation, and grew up with parents who had gone through the Great Depression as children. My mother, even though her family was comfortable formed habits that she carried through her whole life; saved envelopes for scratch paper; old shirts, towels and fabrics for rags; regularly served left overs, sewed my clothes growing up; and generally wasted as little as possible.

It was a real treat to buy lunch. I always had a good lunch but it was a brown bag lunch after all, not especially cool and never as good.

You only have to look at recent economic events to see that we could use a little more saving and less spending. Here’s hoping that people will think about today’s message and not just think it’s the older generation boasting how tough they had it and how easy you young folks live. You know – “I had to walk to school, uphill both ways in the snow.”

Keep the communications flowing.

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By: Peter Martin https://cruciallearning.com/blog/kerrying-on-six-dollars-an-hour/#comment-3378 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 17:21:23 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=5193#comment-3378 As I read this article, I thought, did I have a brother that I did not know about? How could you know that we too had difficult lunch choices. Fortunately for me I wrestled from Jr. High School through College and lunchtime turned into the time for a 10 mile run instead of making difficult choices over lunch. I never ate a meal in our Jr. or High School cafeteria. There weren’t free breakfast or lunches for students. It was a time when parents took responsibility for their children and not let the “village” raise their children. Yet, as painful an experience it was, I wouldn’t change it for the life a kid leads now. I once did the Engineer-in-the-classroom thing. Student arrive at class around 9 am after breakfast. They are taught for a little more than two hours and then its lunchtime. Back to class around 12:30 and most days they are out by 3. Now walking in your slippers as you put it, I got up early each morning, delivered the morning SF Chronicle before walking 2 miles to school. Arriving at 7 we had Band practice from 7-9 in the morning. Then class until noon when I would go for a run. Afternoons were math and science. By 2 we’d be in the gym for wrestling practice until 7. Then after walking home, I’d go to my evening job and clean-up a shop for 2 hours, before going home to do homework until midnight or so. Then get up around 5:30 and do it all again. In those days, you ate a piece of fruit for breakfast, another for lunch if you were lucky, and some sort of stew for dinner. And yet, through it all, I enjoyed it and made me think about the importance of setting goals, the value of money, hard work, and the meaning of EARNING a living. When I was growing up, leaving the light on, one would hear “you don’t own stock in the power company”. When I finished college, I built my own house and installed PV solar for electricity. When my dad came to visit, I told him to go ahead and leave the lights on, its OK, I own the power company.

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By: Teresa https://cruciallearning.com/blog/kerrying-on-six-dollars-an-hour/#comment-3377 Wed, 30 Apr 2014 17:14:58 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=5193#comment-3377 Kerry,
You are my favorite writer – your stories pull me right into the scenes you describe. It was “a different time”, and thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us.

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