Comments for Crucial Learning https://cruciallearning.com/ VitalSmarts is now Crucial Learning Wed, 01 May 2024 03:07:39 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 Comment on Motivation or Ability? by DS Jordan https://cruciallearning.com/blog/motivation-or-ability/#comment-12165 Wed, 01 May 2024 03:07:39 +0000 https://www.crucialskills.com/?p=6347#comment-12165 This is a slippery slope, asking a leader to begin applying behaviors against a diagnosis. I have seen people with best of intentions quickly put themselves and the company at serious risk of litigation.

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Comment on Working with Someone You Just Can’t Stand by Barbara Pilarcik https://cruciallearning.com/blog/working-with-someone-you-just-cant-stand/#comment-12164 Tue, 30 Apr 2024 17:42:47 +0000 https://cruciallearning.com/?p=23533#comment-12164 There is a saying : “In life, we meet the people we are supposed to meet.” So why is this person in your life, what lesson are they bringing you? View it from the opportunity to learn a new skill, lesson, or perspective even if the answer is “they are showing me how not to treat other people.’

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Comment on How to Respond to a Workplace Bully by CB https://cruciallearning.com/blog/how-to-respond-to-a-workplace-bully/#comment-12140 Wed, 24 Apr 2024 15:43:10 +0000 https://cruciallearning.com/?p=25033#comment-12140 If you can’t have a crucial conversation, I suggest going to HR. I’ve been asked by some if they are overreacting by going to HR, and I tell them no. After they do go to HR, they find that they are the 9th person who has complained about the “bully”, so now HR has enough information to take next steps.

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Comment on How to Respond to a Workplace Bully by Hanne Wulp https://cruciallearning.com/blog/how-to-respond-to-a-workplace-bully/#comment-12139 Wed, 24 Apr 2024 15:33:01 +0000 https://cruciallearning.com/?p=25033#comment-12139 What if their response to your request for a respectful way of interacting is not an insult (“You are weak-skinned, etc”), but something like: “This is just how I speak to everyone. I’m allowed to bring my whole self to work. Let’s be open-minded and respectful to everyone’s way of expressing here.”
Or: “This is how everyone interacts nowadays (or: in this field of work). There is nothing wrong with it. It’s not personal or anything.”

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Comment on How to Respond to a Workplace Bully by C. Strom https://cruciallearning.com/blog/how-to-respond-to-a-workplace-bully/#comment-12136 Wed, 24 Apr 2024 13:47:03 +0000 https://cruciallearning.com/?p=25033#comment-12136 And if the person doing the bullying is your boss, then good luck. Might as well start to look for a new job, they always win.

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Comment on The Importance of Being Frank by Renée Powers https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-importance-of-being-frank/#comment-12130 Tue, 23 Apr 2024 20:06:04 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=5868#comment-12130 In reply to Yvonne Christopher.

Hey, Yvonne (and others) ~ you can see Kerry’s response to “what became of Frank” in the comments above (dated MAY 27, 2015 AT 10:04 PM). Thank you, Kerry! 🙂

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Comment on The Importance of Being Frank by Yvonne Christopher https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-importance-of-being-frank/#comment-12114 Mon, 22 Apr 2024 12:20:22 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=5868#comment-12114 Yvonne Christopher

Frank is my hero who I shall introduce to my granddaughter. It is my hope she will become a Frank – a person excited by learning and a person that inspires others to learn.!

I also want to know what Frank did after high school was over and his adult life began. Love to see more article like this. Thank you. for making my day!

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Comment on Is Politics Hurting Your Marriage? Here’s What You Can Do by Kay https://cruciallearning.com/blog/is-politics-hurting-your-marriage-heres-what-you-can-do/#comment-12110 Mon, 22 Apr 2024 00:33:39 +0000 https://www.vitalsmarts.com/crucialskills/?p=8879#comment-12110 In reply to Peggy Lou (@Peggylou46).

Way to go Peggy Lou

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Comment on The Importance of Being Frank by DELIA AGBOZO https://cruciallearning.com/blog/the-importance-of-being-frank/#comment-12091 Thu, 18 Apr 2024 12:39:19 +0000 http://www.crucialskills.com/?p=5868#comment-12091 That was a very inspiring read. Hope all young people get to read it and know that they have have a peer as an inspiration.

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Comment on History & Development of SDI 2.0 by teresabar19c7b9f4cf https://cruciallearning.com/blog/history-development-of-sdi-2-0/#comment-12088 Wed, 17 Apr 2024 16:59:12 +0000 https://cruciallearning.com/?p=25250#comment-12088 Thank you for this extremely thorough description of the development of the SDI to its current form. I found it fascinating but, more importantly, utterly convicting. I ended up printing the key graphics and descriptions from my SDI 2.0 results and posting it over my desk so I will see it regularly, hopefully reminding me why I do what I do (and to scale down on the overdone strengths). I value the work and underlying philosophies of this assessment and am thankful for it!

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